Wednesday, July 22, 2009

He's just not that into you.

Have you seen the movie "He's just not that into you?" I haven't, but I read about it in the Oprah magazine. I thought that the psychologist who was quoted (Judith Sills) had a good point. She said "When you've clearly signaled your interest (in a man) and he doesn't pursue" it is time to give up going after him. And she added "believe me, it's sooner than you think."

Take this to heart. Don't keep hoping a man will finally see the light and decide that you are the one. Invest a little time in a relationship, see if there is any spark and get out quickly if there isn't. There are lots of men out there. Don't waste your time trying to make one like you. You deserve better.

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