Here is another myth that needs to be debunked. No one can read your mind! I have heard many people say, "He should know what I want by now. We have been together a long time." Or, "If she loved me she would know what to do. I shouldn't have to say anything." This is complete hooey. No one knows what you're thinking except you. If you want a loved one to know what you want, then tell them.
I have also heard people say, "I don't want to say what I want for my birthday or Christmas because it isn't as special if I tell them what gift to get me." Well, if you like surprises, that's fine. But then don't tell your partner that they have gotten you the wrong thing. Just tell them what you want in the first place and everyone will be happy.
I heard on the radio today the song "Can You Read My Mind?" from the movie Superman. This is a great sentiment if your boyfriend actually IS Superman. Lois Lane has it good, but for the rest of us mere mortals it's better to speak our minds.
If you have trouble being assertive, give me a call. I would be happy to talk with you about this.
By the way, I really like Superman. I think he's dreamy, don't you?
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